Time will tell.

Predominantly most of the lightning software is all in beta mode so risking a large amount of sats in any wallet doesn't make sense to me, but it is great for experimenting with though.

I have Zeus linked to my Alby account and BlueWallet linked to one of my LNbits wallets (testcad@lnaddress.com). Also, I have one of my LNbits wallets backing Cashu for playing with ecash.

LNbits is one I like playing with because there is lots of integration packages and a REST API as well.

When the lightning network is largely ran by non-beta software, I'll start looking at self-custody wallets.